Finding the right organizations can be difficult. It is a lot of pressure to make a commitment to something that will shape your college career and, ultimately, make or break your experience.
This is my fourth year on campus and I have been in my fair share of organizations. I understand the obstacles you might face when searching for the right group on campus.
Where are the organizations that will give me scholarships? Is this honor society legit? Which sorority is the cheapest? Which fraternity is the coolest?
I get it. However, joining an organization is so much more than the money and the cool kids club. Here are some things you should keep in mind:
Understand your values. Who are you? You may know your skills and general goals, but what is important to you? This may take you a semester or even a year. It doesn’t matter because this is the most important part when you think about who you are going to hang out with for the next four years.
College is hard. No matter the major or hours, college can be stressful. Perhaps waiting that semester or year can allow you to get accustomed to the fast-paced schoolwork. Gaining good study habits before you add more to your to-do list will benefit your chances of survival.
Do you have the time? Organizations can be like a second job (with no pay). They may take a lot of that personal time you had to watch Netflix, or maybe you have an actual job. Do not stress yourself out with time, but remember extracurricular activities are required for some careers.
Your organizations may reflect your future. Although you may be unable to participate in the career you want, organizations provide a glimpse of what it may be like. There are over 200 organizations on campus. There is most likely one related to what you want to do.
It is the people, not the title. Remember the organization may be widely known but the people on the campus might not live up to the expectations. If you do not feel comfortable around them, then don’t torture yourself. Also keep in mind the credibility and the reputation.
Create some memories. Although there will be times when you’re going to buckle down and get work done. Make some time for fun. Sometimes joining an organization will take more time because you’ve realized you have found your second family.
Make the commitment. Now I know I said to be mindful of the people; however, you will have to deal with difficult people in lots of situations. Be prepared for drama with officers and fellow members, but always remember to be professional.
Do not be so quick to judge. Lastly, make your own impression. You have probably heard all the chisme about a certain organization, but rumors are just rumors. This is not high school. We are all grown-ups and you can learn to see the good in people.
